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		<title>An important score for your college-bound teen</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jul 2010 11:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Suzanne Shaffer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today&#8217;s guest post is from WilliamPaid.com, providing a service for college students and their families by providing online rent payment capabilities, student loan reductions, cash-back rewards, and even a roommate connect option. Follow @WilliamPaid on Twitter for credit coaching, roommate helps, and landlord tips. Pass this post along to your college-bound teen and get them [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.parentscountdowntocollegecoach.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/william-paid-logo.png"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1282" title="william paid logo" src="http://www.parentscountdowntocollegecoach.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/william-paid-logo.png" alt="" width="275" height="118" /></a>Today&#8217;s guest post is from <a href="http://www.williampaid.com" target="_blank">WilliamPaid.com</a>, providing a service for college students and their families by providing online rent payment capabilities, student loan reductions, cash-back rewards, and even a roommate connect option. Follow <a href="http://www.twitter.com/williampaid" target="_blank">@WilliamPaid</a> on Twitter for credit coaching, roommate helps, and landlord tips. Pass this post along to your college-bound teen and get them started on the right track to a good credit score!</p>
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<p>Your credit score can be a lot like an SAT score.  That is, you really don’t care about it until it isn’t high enough.  Like SATs, cramming doesn’t really work.  When it comes to your credit, there are no shortcuts.</p>
<p>That doesn’t mean that you are stuck and unable to impact your credit score. You actually have all the control. Here are six simple things to keep in mind:</p>
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<li><strong>Pay Your Bills      On Time.</strong> Mom and Dad were right; on-time      payments demonstrate responsibility and show creditors that you manage      your accounts.  If you have to, even      paying just the minimum amount – but on time – will help.</li>
<li><strong>Check Your      Credit.</strong> Be sure that you are checking      your credit at least every 12 months to ensure that you know where your      credit stands. This also helps you to make sure that no fraudulent      activity has been going on in your account.  There is no need for a costly service &#8211;      you can do this for free by requesting your<a href="https://www.annualcreditreport.com/cra/index.jsp"> free credit report</a> each year.</li>
<li><strong>Take Care of the      Past.</strong> If you have any <a href="http://credit.about.com/od/creditreportscoring/tp/badcrentries.htm">negative      entries on your credit report</a> that you      haven’t resolved yet, do it.  Take      any extra cash you have and pay off any judgments or liens. While these      items may stay on your credit report for some time, resolving these      matters demonstrates your efforts to get your credit score under control,      which will then raise your score.</li>
<li><strong>Close with Caution.</strong> It may seem ironic, but <a href="http://credit.about.com/od/creditreportscoring/qt/closecardscore.htm">closing      credit accounts</a> can actually hurt you. It may be      better not to use a credit card than to actually close it.  It has to do with your available credit      and the amount of your available credit that you’ve expended.  Keep in mind, though, that some credit      cards charge annual fees, so weigh the cost and the benefit.  You can always call the credit card      company and ask them to waive your fee.</li>
<li><strong>Get Credit for      Rent and Other Payments</strong>.  Those with little to no credit histories      can bolster credit files by having rent and other recurring payments      reported. Traditionally, these payments do not get reported to the credit      bureaus and therefore, these positive payment histories are often missed.  Online rent payment service <a href="http://www.williampaid.com/">WilliamPaid.com</a> will pay and report your ongoing rent payments and provide you with      flexible rent payment options.  You      can also use <a href="http://www.williampaid.com/index.cfm/act/services-bill-verification">WilliamPaid’s      Bill Verification Service</a> to verify and      report bills that you’ve already paid.       This can allow you to use past payments to prove your creditworthiness.</li>
<li><strong>Open and Manage      Accounts.</strong> Establish yourself as a serious      borrower by opening a checking and savings accounts to begin tracking your      money more closely and saving what you can each month. The longer your      positive credit and banking relationships, the better your credit score      will be.</li>
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<p>While your SATs can determine what school you get into, your credit score can determine everything from the type of loan you can receive to what kind of apartment you can rent to whether or not you will get your dream job, so take care of it and it will take care of you.</p>
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		<title>Sleeping with Strangers</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Mar 2010 11:00:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Suzanne Shaffer</dc:creator>
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<em>If your college-bound teen is heading off to dorm life in the fall (or you&#8217;re looking ahead to that day) here&#8217;s a great article about making living with an unknown roommate bearable. HEED this advice!</em></p>
<address>By David Replogle for <em>The Real College Guide</em></address>
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<p>Your random roommate is a total stranger who&#8217;ll sleep by your  side and share your air for at least a semester. Here, how to make  things (a little) less awkward.</p>
<p>Your mission, if you choose to  accept it, is to make it through freshman year shacked up with a  stranger: your new roommate. Um, <em>awkward</em>. Want to reach out to  your roomie lay down some laws &#8212; and hopefully the groundwork for a  great relationship? Here&#8217;s a five-step plan to increase your odds of  survival at the foundation of your school social life: your dorm room.</p>
<p><strong>1. Make Contact</strong><br />
A proper introduction sets the tone of the  relationship, and breaking the ice early gives you a head start on  addressing more pressing issues (like who&#8217;s bringing the Xbox &#8212; see No.  3). So, once you get your roommate&#8217;s name and contact info, put it to  good use by shooting him an e-mail or a Facebook friend request. If  you&#8217;re feeling particularly brave, pick up the phone and dial those  digits.</p>
<p>By the way, be careful not to jump to conclusions while stalking your  roommate.  &#8221;Facebook is just a way of getting that initial impression  of the person and taking the ease off the nervousness,&#8221; says rising  junior Jasmine Laroche of the University of Pittsburgh. &#8220;Actually  spending time with and getting to know your roommate is your best bet.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>2. Meet and Greet</strong><br />
Meeting up before school starts gives you  the chance to make a casual but high-quality first impression. Plus, it  makes things a lot less awkward on move-in day, when you&#8217;ll likely be  towing your parents and breaking a sweat emptying your stuff out of the  ol&#8217; minivan. A pre-screening allows you to calm your nerves too, since  it means you&#8217;ll have one more familiar face (and one less unknown  factor) come fall. So, if you&#8217;re attending a state school and your  roomie lives nearby, there&#8217;s no excuse not to get together. But don&#8217;t  give up on meeting if you&#8217;re a beach bum in So Cal and your future bunk  buddy lives in the deep woods of Maine. You don&#8217;t need to be majoring in  rocket science to sync your summer travel schedules and meet up.  Otherwise, there&#8217;s always video chat.</p>
<p><strong>3. Set Ground Rules</strong><br />
First off, make sure the two of you  have similar packing plans for stuff you&#8217;re going to share, like a TV,  large rug or mini-fridge. &#8220;There&#8217;s so much stuff to bring that it&#8217;s easy  not to be on the same page,&#8221; reflects Virginia Tech senior Valerie  Carboni. After you figure out who&#8217;s bringing what, it&#8217;s time to lay down  the law.</p>
<p>You should discuss each of your expectations about staying up and  waking up, partying, having guests over, cleanliness and borrowing each  other&#8217;s things. (These are the most common conflicts, but they might not  be the only ones.) There is no better time than the present to voice  your opinion or strike some compromises, even if it results in early  head-butting. It&#8217;s better than letting issues build up later, which can  lead to heated arguments and uncomfortable passive-aggression (and that <em>really </em>sucks).</p>
<p><strong>4. Reach out (While You Branch out)</strong><br />
Roommates tend to spend  a lot of time together early in the school year, but that doesn&#8217;t mean  you&#8217;ll be the lone kid on campus if you and your roommate don&#8217;t hit it  off. That said, many roommates grow apart after week one.</p>
<p>Regardless, be sure to show some empathy toward your roomie. At the  end of the day, she will be the one you come home to and the first to  notice when you are sick, stressed or heartbroken. &#8220;This is the person  you live with and see every day,&#8221; says Carboni, &#8220;and even if you aren&#8217;t  the best of friends, it&#8217;s still important to check in on someone.&#8221;</p>
<p>So, if your roommate needs a quick term paper edited or is crying for  some impromptu relationship advice, grab a red pen or muster up your  most genuine &#8220;It&#8217;s not you, it&#8217;s him.&#8221; It&#8217;s also nice to extend an  invitation every now and then, even if you suspect the offer will be  turned down (like when you&#8217;re headed out to a party and your roomie is  decked out in pj&#8217;s and staring blankly at the computer screen). Hey,  it&#8217;s the thought that counts.</p>
<p><strong>5. Keep It Real</strong><br />
Embark on your roommate relationship with a  positive attitude, but realize that not all random roommate couplings  are going to end up BFF. And you don&#8217;t need to fake it. If you follow  all the above steps and it turns out you&#8217;re still like oil and water,  hey, it happens.</p>
<p>Meanwhile, keep in mind that this is only the beginning of an  illustrious college career, and you&#8217;ve got plenty of time to forge new  relationships. &#8220;Your roommate can turn out to be your best friend or  just an acquaintance, but don&#8217;t measure your roommate experience to what  college is going to be like,&#8221; Laroche points out. Bottom line? Just  buckle up and enjoy the ride &#8230; er, mission.</p>
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