What Is Your Teen Doing Online?

 

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The best thing about the internet is a wealth of information available at your fingertips for college prep. You can find college advice, testing help, college visit information, financial aid information and everything you need to know about individual colleges. But with every good thing, there are dangers lurking in the shadows. Researching college topics is good, other social media activities might not be as safe–what is your teen doing online?

My grandsons are already familiar with their parents’ smartphones. My 5 year old grandson can access games, turn Netflix on and off, and use Facetime on his own. My 2 year old grandson knows that the phone gets him access to cartoons anywhere, anytime. I can’t imagine what it will be like when they both become teenagers because it’s a very scary online world. If you don’t believe so, read this article from Smart College Visit: A Parent’s Greatest Fear.

The Liahona Academy did some real research about teen’s online activity on social media. Based on this information, if you aren’t taking an active role in your teen’s online life you are burying your head in the sand. Years ago teens snuck out of the house to engage in risky behavior. Today it’s easier than it has ever been with the use of a smartphone to hide online activity from parents.

If you don’t believe me, here are some sobering statistics from the above mentioned study:

  • 55% of teens have given out personal info to someone they don’t know
  • 29% of teens have been stalked or contacted by a stranger
  • 29% of teens have participated in cyber bullying
  • 24% of teens have had private or embarrassing info made public without permission
  • 22% have been cyberpranked

and…

  • Only 34% of parents check their teen’s social network sites

Are those stats cause for concern? Based on these responses those stats should be:

  • 67% of teenagers say they know how to hide what they do online from their parents
  • 43% of teens say they would change their online behavior if they knew that their parents were watching them
  • 39% think their online activity is private from everyone, including parents
  • 20% of teens think their parents have no idea what they are doing online
  • 18% have created a private email address or separate social networking profile
  • 10% have unlocked parental controls to disable filtering

and…

  • 38% would feel offended if they found out their parents were spying on them with parental controls

It’s time for parents to wake up. It’s no longer acceptable to ignore your teen’s online activity.. They may be the best behaved, best mannered and most respectful teenagers. But there is a world out there full of online predators waiting to pounce on naive teens who post on social media.

What social media tools are teens using?

  • Twitter
  • Facebook
  • Pinterst
  • Pheed
  • YouTube
  • Kik
  • 4chan
  • Askfm
  • Vine
  • Tumblr
  • Snapchat
  • Instagram

For more information about each of these and how they pose a threat to your teenager, you can access the infographic here: What Your Teen is Doing on Social Media. The infographic also provides information on how to get involved, how to monitor online activity, how teens hide their browser activity from their parents, and most importantly, some monitoring tools for parents. Parents will also find 10 Online Activities Every Parent Needs to Talk About With Their Teens.

This is one of the most concise and helpful infographic I have seen informing parents about online activity and giving tools to help them monitor it. You wouldn’t allow a predator or stranger in your home, don’t let it happen on social media.

10 “No Essay” Scholarships with March Deadlines

 

"no essay" scholarships

It’s Scholarship Friday again and today I’m sharing 10 “no essay” scholarships with March deadlines:

Toyota TeenDrive365 Video Challenge
Amount: Up to $15,000
Challenge is open to legal U.S. residents who are at least 13 years of age and are enrolled in grades 9-12 who create a 60-90 second video that demonstrates the importance of safe teen driving.

Deadline: March 7, 2016

“Frame My Future” Scholarship Contest
Amount: $1,000
Applicant must intend to enroll as a full-time student at a U.S. college or university in the 2015-2016 academic year and be a legal resident; must submit an original creative image that shows “how you want to Frame Your Future!”

Deadline: March 8, 2016

Junior Duck Stamp Contest
Amount: Up to $1,000
Contest is open to students in grades K-12 who attend public, private, or home schools who draw, paint, or sketch a picture of an eligible North American waterfowl species.

Deadline: March 15, 2016 for most states

My Preparedness Story: Staying Healthy and Resilient Video Challenge
Amount: Up to $2,000
Challenge is open to students between the ages of 14 and 23 years of age who submit a short video to YouTube showing how you can help family, friends, and community protect their health during a disaster.

Deadline: March 28, 2016

“Stop Cell Phone Robocals” $1,000 Scholarship
Amount: $1,000
Scholarship is open to graduating high school seniors and current undergraduate students who submit a 140-character statement completing the following sentence: “Cell phone robocalls need to be regulated because..”

Deadline: March 31, 2016

$1,000 Scholarship Sweepstake: High School Edition
Amount: $1,000
Scholarship is open to legal residents of the U.S. who are 13 years of age or older and currently enrolled in a high school. Parents of high school students may also apply by registering on Noodle.com.

Deadline: March 31, 2016

2016 ABA YLD Law Day Art Contest
Amount: Up to $750
Contest is open to students in grades 9-12 in the United States who submit an art piece on the topic: “Miranda: More than Words.”

Deadline: March 31, 2016

Creative Patriot Art Awards
Amount: Up to $10,000
Applicant must be in grades 9-12 and submit an original piece of art to local ladies auxiliary organization that expresses patriotism.

Deadline: March 31, 2016

Superpower Scholarships
Amount: $2,500
Scholarship is open to students 13 years of age or older who are legal residents of the U.S. and are currently enrolled (or will enroll no later than the fall of 2022) in an accredited post-secondary institution of higher education. Applicant must explain in a short written response which superhero or villain they would want to change places with for a day and why.

Deadline: March 31, 2016

Yo Teach! Scholarship
Amount: $3,000
Applicant must show their love for their best professor or teacher by writing and performing a rap with friends about teaching.

Deadline: March 31, 2016

What Are the Alternatives to Traditional College?

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If traditional college isn’t for everyone, what’s the alternative?

Yesterday I posted an article: “Should Every Child Go To College?” The answer: It’s not for every child and parents shouldn’t push if it isn’t happening. You know your child better than anyone. Think outside the box and help your child find the right path.

Here are some other options beyond the traditional college path:

Community college

Many graduating seniors have decided to take the community college path. They made that choice for several reasons: cost, academic preparation, and the freedom to stay at home for the first few years. Community colleges aren’t just training grounds for technical careers, they are also the first stop for about 4 in 10 of college-bound high school graduates.

A gap year

More and more students are considering a gap year (or gap years) after high school. This time would be to explore career options, travel to discover yourself and gain cultural experience, volunteer for a year in a community service job or abroad, or work with the goal of saving money for college.

The military

While the military is not for everyone, it is a viable option for many students. Not only will you learn discipline, organization, and teamwork, but you will also gain job experience. The military has numerous career options to choose from that will transition into the workforce after your term of service is over. An added benefit is the education benefit veterans receive, allowing you to attend college using government funding.

Work and community college

Another option you might choose is working while attending community college. You can take as few courses as your time permits and ease into the college level courses. Working during community college also allows you to pay for college as you attend, avoiding large amounts of student loan debt.

Trade school or apprenticeship

The trades and/or apprenticeships are certainly overlooked as a path after college. Pursuing a trade ensures job security and future earning potential. You can go to a specific career school such as an art or fashion institute or a culinary institute, or you can work in with a professional learning their trade. Another option would be to consider a college that focuses not only on academics but also on hands on education. One such college is Pennsylvania College of Technology. You can read all about them in these series of articles.

Internships

Students can also work at paid or unpaid internships after high school. These internships will help you discover your interests and gain insight into various careers and what training or education you would need. Many employers offer paid education benefits while working and will often hire you as a full time employee after completion of the internship and/or education.

If your student seems unmotivated or uninterested in college have a serious discussion about his plans after high school. Make it clear that he needs a plan and help him formulate that plan. If they become part of the planning process and are involved in the decision making, they will be much happier with their choices.

Should Every Child Go to College?

 

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I published this article about five years ago, but I feel it’s content is still true today. Too many parents push students to go to college when they are not prepared either academically, emotionally or financially. So many students go and fail because college is simply not for them.

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I read an article a few years ago in The Atlantic: “In the Basement of the Ivory Tower, that gave me some food for thought. It’s been on my mind for quite awhile, especially since I have a close friend who is a financial aid counselor at one of those infamous “for profit” colleges.

She would answer my leading question with a loud and emphatic, “NO”, based on her experience dealing with those who are not prepared to attend college and don’t understand the consequences of borrowing money they can’t pay back. They have been convinced that without a college education, they can’t get a job or pursue a career. They’ve been told by someone that it doesn’t matter how much money you borrow as long as you get that degree. Once you get that degree you can earn enough money to pay back what you’ve borrowed. But we all know that’s not often the case.

In the above mentioned article, the English professor makes an interesting point:

America, ever-idealistic, seems wary of the vocational-education track. We are not comfortable limiting anyone’s options. Telling someone that college is not for him seems harsh and classist and British, as though we were sentencing him to a life in the coal mines. I sympathize with this stance; I subscribe to the American ideal.

Sending everyone under the sun to college is a noble initiative. Academia is all for it, naturally. Industry is all for it; some companies even help with tuition costs. Government is all for it; the truly needy have lots of opportunities for financial aid. The media applauds it—try to imagine someone speaking out against the idea. To oppose such a scheme of inclusion would be positively churlish.

I’ve come to realize that Americans truly are snobs. We brag about what we have and what we have obtained. Like it or not, we are a classist society. We snub our noses at those who haven’t been to college and brag heavily about our numerous degrees as if they are badges of honor. And while graduating from college is an accomplishment, so is learning a trade.

Often, we push our kids to attend college when we know it’s not for them. Why? Because we are a society that measures success by the number of degrees hanging on a wall or the dollar signs that can be found on our bank accounts. It is noble to dream big and education is always a noble goal. But so is being a plumber, a carpenter, a cosmetologist or a civil servant like a police officer or fireman.

What’s my point? My point is that you need to know your child. If they want to go to college and have the skills and knowledge they need to be successful there, then encourage them to go. But if they aren’t interested or motivated, save yourself some heartache, disappointment and money by letting them pursue a trade or career and even consider a college that offers both. There are so many fabulous careers out there that they can do without higher education. You will be happier, they will be happier and they will fill an important role in society. College really isn’t for child.

The Scary Truth About Student Loan Borrowers

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Earlier this month, LendEDU, a marketplace for student loans and student loan refinancing, decided to survey college student loan borrowers at a nearby college to see how much they knew about their student loan debt. Over the course of a couple days of surveying they confirmed their suspicions. Most of our nation’s current college students don’t understand their student loans or the financial aid process. With permission, they filmed some of the respondents while they asked them a series of questions related to their student loan debt.

At the end of our survey LendEDU decided to package together some of their favorite survey responses into one short video.

Will your child be one of these student loan borrowers?

As a parent, not only will you find this video eye opening and entertaining, but just a bit scary. Educate your student about student loan debt before he signs those financial aid award documents.

For more information on student loans, click here.

Creative Scholarships with February Deadlines

 

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Most Fridays I like to highlight scholarships and this week is no exception. You’ve heard me say that there are scholarships available for all types of students, even if they aren’t A+ students, athletes or student leaders. Today’s scholarships are for those students who exhibit creativity and talent in the arts. The deadlines are mid-late February, giving your student plenty of time to submit an application.

Courageous Persuaders Video Competition

Amount: Up to $2,000

This creative contest is open to high school students in grades 9-12 who create a commercial targeted at middle school students warning about the dangers of underage drinking.

Deadline: Feb. 11, 2016

BMI Student Composer Awards

Amount: Up to $5,000

This award is open to citizens of a country in the Western Hemisphere who are enrolled in a college, conservatory of music, or the private study of music with an established teacher. Students must submit an original composition.

Deadline: Feb. 15, 2016

John Lennon Scholarship

Amount: Varies

To apply, the applicant must be a current student or alumna of a U.S. college or university who is between the ages of 17 and 24 at the time of submission and submit an original song with lyrics accompanied by instrumentation.

Deadline: Feb. 15, 2016

Love Letters Scholarship

Amount: $5,000

Description: Applicant must be 26 years of age or younger and create homemade valentine’s cards for senior adults and give to Meals on Wheels for delivery by Feb. 10, 2016. Students will receive one entry for the first card donated, and an additional entry for every additional three (3) cards donated.

Deadline: Feb. 15, 2016

The Christophers’ Poster Contest for High School Students

Amount: Up to $1,000

Contest is open to students in grades 9-12. Student must create an original poster based on the theme, “One Person Can Make a Difference.”

Deadline: Feb. 17, 2016

Create-A-Greeting-Card Scholarship Contest

Amount: $10,000

This scholarship contest is open to all high school, college and university students enrolled at any time during the latter half of 2015. Applicant must submit a photo, artwork or computer graphic for the front of a greeting card.

Deadline: Feb. 25, 2016

Student Video Contest

Amount: Up to $1,000

Open to students in grades 6-12 who create a short video about the human population growth that highlights one of the given global challenges.

Deadline: Feb. 25, 2016

The Atlantic & College Board Writing Prize

Amount: Up to $5,000

This contest is open to students 16-19 years of age who submit an essay based on a work of art of their choosing.

Deadline: Feb. 28, 2016

 

TeenLife Live Event

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TeenLife LIVE  is finally here!

Their first ever virtual fair is this Sunday 1/31!

They have 30+ exhibitors, 12 speakers, and 2 sponsors (Microsoft and Fathom) and some really cool giveaways (including a free cruise and surface tablet).

The virtual event covers programs and topics that you care about: College Prep, Summer, Gap, Community Service, STEM, and Health & Wellness. Ask experts questions and live chat with program leaders in each of these areas from the convenience of your laptop, tablet, or phone.

When: Sunday, January 31, 2016 from noon to 6pm.

Where: http://teenlifelive.collegeweeklive.com

What are you waiting for? Register now!

For more information, read this blog post and the FAQ page

10 Criteria to Narrow Down Your College List

 

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There are over 4000 four-year colleges in the United States and another 1900 community colleges. Choosing a college can be overwhelming if you don’t narrow down the choices with this simple list of basic criteria. Once you’ve narrowed down the college list, you can get more selective and specific with your final choices.

Here is a list of 10 choice criteria to consider:

  • Your study preferences—Are they more comfortable in a structured class or do you excel doing independent study? Do you require academic challenge or prefer in-class time with little or no additional study?
  • Money—Your budget plays a huge factor in the decision process. If your budget is tight, will you consider student loans? And if so, will an expensive private university be worth the debt?
  • Size—Do you want small class size or does it matter? Does being part of a large student body appeal to you or would they prefer a small college atmosphere?
  • Location—Do you want to go away to college or stay close by so you can live at home? Are you looking for a cultural experience that a big city offers or a down home experience provided by a small town college?
  • Extracurriculars—Are you set on joining a sorority or a fraternity? Are these offered at the colleges you are considering? Are there other activities that you feel are crucial to having a positive college experience (i.e. working on a campus newspaper, participating in intramural sports, studying abroad)?
  • Academics—Is there a specific major you are interested in or will a liberal arts degree do? Not every university offers the same academic disciplines.
  • Career focus—Do you want to study the culinary arts or fashion design? Consider a school that offers these types of specialized degrees.
  • Sports—Does the school have a huge sports program or do sports play little impact in your decision?
  • Competitive vs Non-competitive—Do you have the resume that will ensure acceptance in a competitive college like Stanford or Penn State? Or do you have a strong academic showing that would send you to the top of the list at a non-competitive college and qualify you for a full scholarship?
  • Specialized programs—Do you want to work in the stock market? Does the school offer a trading room? What about internships, undergraduate research, service learning, and even specialized senior capstone projects (integrating and synthesizing what you have learned).

The college list should be loosely formed by the start of senior year. Juniors should be focusing on college visits and start working on their list. Seniors should review this list and once offers of admission arrive, use it to make the final choice.

Website Pick: My Academic Program

 

my academic program

Today’s website pick is a new site for students allowing them to create an academic portfolio: My Academic Program.

According to its founder, JD Parkman, “Our focus from day 1 was to provide students with a cost-to-benefit of obtaining a degree. We do this by taking the actual costs of obtaining a degree and compare the financial loan information to project early/mid/late career earnings.”

The site allows student to explore unbiased college data and rankings, build a portfolio so colleges can find you, and connect with colleges to increase your admissions odds. You can find your perfect match college by telling your story so you are seen as more than a test score.

This new website is student-focused and focuses on providing students with the best information to make a wise financial choice regarding colleges.

Website Pick: Interactive College Dashboard by InetSoft

 

Today’s website pick is an interactive college dashboard allowing you to narrow down the college list using Forbes Top Colleges of 2015. It’s user friendly and allows you to narrow down your choices by using specific criteria.

interactive college dashboard

Ever wished you could narrow down your list of colleges to apply to? This interactive dashboard displays Forbes rankings of America’s top colleges for the year 2015. Narrow down the list of 650 schools by filtering on state, URL, population, and gender rates. Data can further be evaluated by restricting SAT scores, ACT scores, costs, percentages of financial aid per college, student populations, and student faculty ratios. For some schools, the dashboard displays Forbes Financial’s ratings, as well as the region/states of various different colleges presented in the dashboard. Now students can narrow down their top schools of choice with a few clicks of a mouse!

You can move your mouse over a state and immediately see how many of Forbes Top Colleges are in the state, and by clicking on the state itself you will see the actual list, along with website links and pertinent data. While I don’t normally recommend using a one particular list to narrow down your college choices, this tool can be used to view colleges that might be on your list.

Follow this link to use this interactive tool: https://visualizefree.com/public.jsp?id=BXMCGBLJ